Welcome to 32nd and Chestnut...
We'll document the strangeness of college life, try to translate our experience for diverse readers, and chronicle what it means to be a college student during these crazy days of economic turmoil and political battle.
That's it for now; I have to go an play Spore.
Monday, September 29, 2008
partying
We thought, finally a party, how different can that be.
First of all we had to get to the party; this wouldn’t have been bad if we actually knew where it was. We walked everywhere! Walking all over, doubling back when we realized we were going the wrong way, walked around blocks then cutting across till we ended up exactly where we started off in d first place. After about 2 hours or so the excitement was wearing of, my feet were being pinched by my shoes, I was sweating and the conversation had been reduced to mere grunts. By the time we actually found the party we had lost a huge chunk of our eagerness. We got to the door and we were asked to pay. It’s a small thing, yet I had never heard of that before. But it was our first night so we just paid and went in. Only to be hit by the hottest, most stale air possible! It was like breathing in liquid air, nothing actually going into your lungs. Then there were the people. Being in that room reminded me, vaguely, of those classic cartoons that pack so many clowns in that tiny, wind up car. There was absolutely no space. We had to inch in with our elbows tucked in. I am not a tall person, being about 5’ 4”, you can just imagine how easily I was pushed around by the wrestlers and basket ball players, I couldn’t even walk in the direction I wanted to go in and I was helplessly guided to the dance floor by the movement of other people, where I got my second shock.
I’m not a conservative person but the way people dance here is just amazing. I had never seen such licentious dancing and I was fascinated. Such dances cannot be described for an assignment but many people know what I’m talking about.
This party was a bit too much for me. I couldn’t take the heat and the smell. Just when I thought it couldn’t get any worse I heard from the door way, “This is the police, everyone needs to leave. This party is over” I looked at my watch and saw it was only to 2 am. This didn’t make sense, a college party ending so early? But it the cops so people were out pretty fast.
It was still early so we decided to go to our friend’s apartment. At the door, I heard a conversation in another language, one I understood. Inside there were a few people talking and laughing, all from where I was from. It was such a relief to hear that after the awful night we had. They then told us about their first years in college too, making our situation seem much more humorous. My first experience wasn’t too great but meeting these people made it easier to deal with, and we made more new friends anyway.
getting off my high horses
It was Thursday, September 18th, and after a long day of moving in, the night had finally begun. Greek Row was the scheduled event for the evening where all the fraternities and sororities opened up their houses to potential new members. While getting information on the formal aspect of Greek Life, minds raced contemplating the social scene associated with each chapter. After all, college fraternity parties are notorious and undeniably something most high schoolers look forward to. The anticipation was great while whispers floated through crowds of anxious freshmen inquiring where the party would be that night...
Sooooooooo after asking around, TKE was the house of choice for the night. A group of girls and I approached the house together and made our way to the front porch. The only guy with us was my good friend from high school so we figured our guy:girl ratio wouldn’t receive complaints. We assumed too quickly because just as we were excitedly making our way through the door, we were stopped.
“Hey who is this guy coming in?” one of the members demanded.
I turned around with a smile and said, “he’s my friend. What’s the problem?”
“No guys are allowed in,” he firmly replied. “It would be considered dirty rushing if we let him in.”
“What is that????” I asked insistingly. I had never heard of “dirty rushing,” and thus thought it was a made-up excuse. I was convinced that the guy was giving us a hard time solely because he wanted only girls admitted into the house so that the TKE fraternity members would be able to “feast” wholesomely. I bluntly said, “BS” to the fraternity member’s surprise. He wasn’t expecting such defiance. “I’m not coming in unless you let my friend come in, too.” The member would not relent, and my efforts proved to be futile. For once my sass didn’t win me the argument. I didn’t feel right leaving my friend; however, he insisted I should go in with the other girls and enjoy myself. I gave the guy at the door a nasty look and proceeded inside.
The party was upstairs, so as the first one in, I started up the central staircase. Suddenly I heard a voice from behind say, “Woah wait a second!”
I turned around to see another fraternity member at the bottom of the stairs ushering me down and holding back the other girls from following me up the stairs.
“What now???” I asked frustratedly.
He stated, “only members are allowed on the central staircase. All other non-members must take the back stairs.”
Severely offended, I began bickering, “what!?!?! That’s so ridiculous! Not only did someone make my friend leave at the door, but now this, too?! We’re your guests here and you’re making us go up the back stairs!?!? That’s so wrong!”
Again, my efforts were futile, and we were led to the back stairs. I continued by angry rants up the back staircase and made sure the guy leading us got a piece of my mind. I had taken such great offense. Call me a raging feminist, but at the time I thought it was so degrading.
The rest of the night went well, but I still couldn’t believe what had happened at the beginning. I needed to vent to someone, so I called one of my good friends who is a sophomore at UC Irvine. I told her the story, but instead of getting consolation, she gave me a major reality check.
“Ranna, I can’t believe you made such a fool of yourself. Sororities and fraternities are not a joke, and you need to start taking them more seriously. Dirty rushing is a legitimate excuse for the frat member to refuse your friend’s entrance. The term refers to a version of bribery. The frat does not want to get accused of trying to convince your friend to rush their frat by showing him a good time at a party. Student recruitment is supposed to be done in other, more formal ways. The frat could get in trouble if other frats suspect them of dirty rushing activities.
As far as the whole ‘central staircase’ issue goes, all I have to say is that you need to get off your high horses. Going up that central staircase is an honor for members. They get that privilege because they put the time and effort into earning the membership to the fraternity. You are not allowed up those stairs because you are simply using the house for a party. I suggest you display more modesty and discretion in your actions from now on.”
I was speechless, and I felt completely humiliated. She was right; I really didn’t give enough credit to sororities and fraternities for being honorary groups. My disrespect towards the fraternity rules and traditions made me seem ignorant and quite frankly, (pardon me) like a bitch. Anyway, I guess part of being in college involves getting stripped of your dignity at some point. I had my shining moment on day one so who knows what’s to come...
Sunday, September 28, 2008
miles away
Most freshmen here at Drexel are from Philadelphia, New York, New Jersey and other cities and towns, big and small around the US. Where am I from? I am from Mumbai. Well of course it’s not another city in the US. It’s Mumbai, India. Yes, I am an international student here at Drexel and it is my first time in the US. I have flown thousands of miles on a 16 hour long flight to get here and so long my experience has been exhilarating. Being a “Mumbai boy” for 15 years was quite enjoyable, but a 15, for the first time I was about to move from Mumbai to Singapore for high school ahead, and today I have crossed several boundaries to get to the US. The transition between Mumbai and Singapore and Mumbai and US was poles apart. At the beginning of my journey I was apprehensive, questions like “How is it going to be to stay so far away from home?”, “ Will I be able to adapt to a new place and an unfamiliar environment” and many other q’s kept bothering me. But to my surprise it wasn’t as complex and challenging as it seemed. It has been more of an adventure where I am learning a lot about ‘change’. Interacting with people from around the globe, making new friends with ease, learning about their culture, acquainting them with mine; assimilating to the way of life in a country far away from home is rather exciting.
Moving in late at Calhoun, I missed my first weekend on campus and the fraternity parties. However on a dull Tuesday evening when I was too lazy to walk up to the dining center I got a few friends to join me for dinner at Chillies. We reached the restraint at around 9pm, and placed are orders. I ended up ordering “egg roll” thinking it’s going to be stuffed with eggs, but it turned out to be stuffed with egg plant. Except that, it was my first time out with friends around the campus. During the brief 20 minutes or so, we got to know each other and were well acquainted about the basics. During the conversations during as we chewed on our appetizers , we realised many of us shared the same interests - food, music, lifestyle, hobbits etc. As we reached desert we knew pretty mush all we had to about each other. This was one my first Drexel experiences although not on a large scale, it was quite interesting. In the days to come, I hope to have many more great “Drexel experiences”
College Life
So much for events...
What are these “social events” everyone speaks of? To me, it simply means nothing. To be honest, I really don’t get too much time to go out like the average kid. I play tennis for the Drexel team, so my focus is strictly on practicing and winning. Education is definitely part of the agenda as well, but that already is a given.
I have been absent from each and every single social event that occurred during the first week of school. However, I did attend my first tennis tournament as a Drexel Dragon representative. This tournament, The Philly Six, consisted of LaSalle, Villanova, Temple, St. Joe’s, University of Penn, and Drexel. It was quite the transition from being in the junior level to playing a Division I level. Everyone is bigger and hits harder, and I became merely a small fish in the ocean. Despite the size discrepancy of me being 5’6 and everyone else at least 5’10, I stood my ground. With the support of my fellow Dragons, I felt confident and determined. This was quite a new experience; having the support from a group of people I just recently met. Tennis no longer felt like an isolated world where there is just me. It suddenly became a team sport. Anyhow, I took on the tournament and won the damn thing, and I’ve never felt better. I shared my triumph and victory with the team, who now became my family. In addition to such rewards, I was able to represent for my school and proved that Drexel is a force to be reckoned with.
College Living
I thought I new what to expect when I got to college, from hearing about it from various friends and family members. But now that I’ve lived on campus a little over a week I realized what they all forgot to tell me. How completely free you are. You can do whatever you want, go wherever you want, and eat anything that I want to eat. How I don’t have to tell my parents everything about my day and my night like I did when I was still living at home. To me it was on of the greatest feelings in the world how independent I had to be and wanted to be. I loved the feeling that I was in control of my day and what I did.
Through out the past week some friends and I have gone out around our campus as well as UPenn’s, and I just love it. I love that we can just go out and walk a few blocks and I can get whatever I need from food to entertainment and everything else. I am really enjoying campus life and living in a great place with all new people.
Old Meets New
Race Street Floor Six
Greek NIte
New Student Carnival: Lame event or friend building experience?
At first glance, what was dubbed a carnival was basically a lame avenue to obtain free food. Most of the attractions weren't really exciting at all; a moon bounce that was under-inflated, an inflatable rock wall that tipped over, and paintable frisbees to name a few. The main consensus of most attendees can easily be summed up by the word "lame". I too at the time thought the new student carnival was not very special, but now that I look back on my first week here at Drexel, I realize it was actually quite crucial. Events like the new student carnival served as a conversation piece--even if you didn't enjoy the event it was always something to talk about. I made many friends that I either met at or after the carnival or by talking to them about it. Showing off the (mostly ugly) frisbees and talking about the food and semi-terrible inflatables gave students a way to relax and all share a common, although unpleasant, opinion. Even the advertisement booth for Fuze fruit drinks was a good conversation piece. Many students (including myself) now carry Fuze branded lanyards and often remark to each other "hey, I have that same lanyard!" The theme of slightly awkward social interaction gave everyone a way to relax and have fun. All in all, the immediate experience of the new student carnival was not very exhilarating, but the long term effects of social bonding will be felt by all of the class of 2012/13.
Oh, and next time there should be cotton candy.
Experiencing College
My first real college experience was Night on the Row. This is when all of the Fraternities and Sororities open their doors and welcome anyone in who would like to know more of what the Greek Life is like. Night on the Row was a great event where I was able to connect with many other students and see what college life was like.
My nerves were still not settled though. In my first week of class, my outgoingness kicked into play and I was meeting so many awesome people. Many of which I see becoming my best friends. Everything that I was experiencing was exactly what I was told. I was told that I would meet some of my best and closest friends at college, and I believe it now. As I begin to realize that, everything everyone is telling me about college is coming true, my nerves are calming. I now realize that I could not have chosen a better college. I can’t wait for my future career here at Drexel.
Commuting Conflicts
Being a commuter has its perks as wells as its downfalls. Having to be on the road an hour before the campus resident student wakes up, I already have found myself driving around for thirty minutes looking for a parking spot. However, every night I receive a home cooked meal. I do have already pre-existing friends that are residents on the campus. So, I am almost pampered by both worlds.
One morning in between classes, my friend calls me and invites me to come up to his room instead of spending an hour or two in the library. He tells me the room number, and I think nothing more of it. I bring my books with me so I can proceed to my next class with very little transition. I make it up to the room no problem and start knocking. No answer. Wait a little bit more and then knock some more. No answer. Look for my phone but my pocket is only filled with keys and pens. Then, someone comes to the door, but it is not the friend I was looking for. Apparently, he had told me the wrong room number, because the person that stared at me was not planning on waking up to a stranger at 10 in the morning. Luckily, I had met the friendly giant this past summer. Having wasted 30 minutes catching up on things, I had to rush to class. After the class, I receive a phone call from my original friend, and he is wondering where I was. I tell him what happens and my original friend, my reacquainted friend, and I all go and grab some food then hang out.
Dining at UPenn
The Projects
Along with all the new things I have been experiencing at Drexel, my two friends and I went out a few days ago to watch a girls club soccer game. While we were walking we thought that we might have gotten lost, so Ken decided to get out his Blackberry and check the map for directions. In fact, we were already going in the right direction, so we decided to keep walking and trust our instincts while, naturally, we would never stop to ask for directions being men and all. As we continued on our way we saw the complex that we were supposed to be in, and kept walking around it to find a gate to the inside. As we were walking, we saw an entrance to a park that looked like it was attahed and went through to the soccer fields. We traveled this path, and upon entering, were approached by two African-American people. The woman, seeming to be nice, told us that we should turn around, because just the other day a white student got mugged by a few people in the park. Her boyfriend/husband told us that she was crazy and we should not listen to her, and being the idiots that we are, we continued through the park. After walking a few minutes, we realized that we were walking through the projects, and were now looking out for our lives and money. There were three buildings and everyone around was staring at us when we walked by, but we made sure not to make eye contact with anyone. One woman in a wheelchair rolled up near us and asked what happened to my arm. She, as well as myself, had a broken arm, and she kept referring to us as "sexy white boys." At this point our hearts were pounding and we realized that we needed to find a road as soon as possible, as we were continually being watched like hawks from everyone around. Soon after, I looked back and saw that there were two men following us that were watching us before, and we picked up our pace at that point after spotting a road. Finally, after sweating bullets and walking until our legs fell off, we reached the entrance to the field. Being the astute studets that we are, we realized that if we would have followed the people we were following in the first place (who took the left in the fork) instead of listening to the Blackberry (going to the right in the fork) we would have been at the game 30 minutes earlier, instead of walking the entire way around the stadium, and almost losing our valuables/lives.
When we arrived at the game, the rain started coming down, and the thunder started pounding in the sky. A few minutes later the game was cancelled, and everyone exited the stadium. Although we were disappointed, we were glad to be alive, and sat at the stadium for a few minutes until we gained enough courage to get back on the streets and walk home. We most definitely learned a lesson that day, and have decided to always go with a bigger group if we are going to attend any sporting events.
Obviously everyone is going to have some scary moments in the city, and my friends and I had a good laugh afterwords, but I must warn anyone who doesn't know where they're going to be very careful while traveling in new areas. That's all for now.
Kevin
Unplanned Events
That's when I realized you can't force friendships you have to find people with common interests and hope to build on those interests. Over the course of the first week I opted for volleyball instead of doing my homework. Which allowed me to meet new people with every new match-up. I developed friendships with my makeshift teammates. All in all I learned from this experience, that getting out and doing something will force you to make new friends. So I will continue to attend unplanned events because for me they are the best way to make friends and meet new people.
Drexel move-in
That also meant that I had a lot of time to sit around and think about what starting college would be like. I’m kind of person that always likes to have a plan of what I’m going to be doing and college was something that I had no previous experiences to relate it to. The closest thing I’ve done to going away to college was going to summer camp with the Boy Scouts for a week for a few summers. A week is considerably shorter than nine months.
Move in was a lot of fun. My roommate had been in our suite alone for a few days before I moved in because he took an early materials science course so he was happy to have everyone else around. I am in the Race street residence hall, which has suite style dorms for mostly honors freshmen. I’m not in the honors college but apparently they had extra space for non-honors freshmen so I got in anyway.
I feel very lucky because the Race dorms are very new and quite nice. They are suite style with two bedrooms with two people in each room and a common area with a couch, chairs, a fridge, a sink and a bit of counter space. My roommates and I are working on decorating our walls with posters so the walls aren’t so bare. A few of the ones we have so far are from Pulp Fiction, The Dark Knight, Sin City and The Simpsons.
So far college has been a lot of fun. I’ve met a bunch of new people and learned a bit already, mostly about how to live away from my family and their support. All of my classes that I take later that are more specific to my major seem like they will be really interesting and I’m already thinking about where I want to do my Co-Op internships.
Also, spore is an awesome game.
Back At Drexel
Un musée et une fille ivre
Do I fit in the Row?
so THIS is college
Night on the row
During the first day at Drexel, I spent time with a couple friends I met at orientation. They insisted we go to an event at night called night on the row where you can introduce yourself to fraternities. I suggested we just stay in and watch a movie. Let's just say majority wins so we ended up going out instead of staying in. At the end of the night I was very happy we didn't stay in. I met a bunch of new friends and got to check out what Drexel has to offer. Everyone was introducing themself, asking how classes are and such. They explained how everything works and why it is good to get involved. People that I met just that night seemed like best friends. When the event ended, new friends were calling me just to hang out and talk. I got so caught up I ended up going to sleep around five. Everyone I met introuduced me to new people so I always see familiar faces when walking the streets. That event changed everything because now I try to be outgoing instead of just sitting back being the quiet guy.
Welcome to the Big Show
Along with starting the new college experience of being on my own and starting classes, I was quickly dropped into the world of Division 1 college wrestling. This is what truly opened my eyes. After having surgery over the summer I was not able to come into pre-season in the shape that I would have truly hoped to, but that’s just tough for me I guess because it doesn’t matter. Exactly one week after moving in HELL began. I’m talking about the wrestling pre-season. We immediately started to run distances of two to three miles followed by an hour of miscellaneous sprints and weightlifting. This was another time when I said to myself, welcome to the big show. While competing with 24 year old men and crazy coaches I finally stepped away from my high school mentality and quickly stepped into the role of my new full time job, Drexel University.
College - A Big Sleepover?
I’ve attended a boarding school for three years before I came here so I thought I was ready for the whole dorm life deal. And yes, I did have some knowledge I’ve gained during my high school life and had an edge over some naïve newbies; use plastic table ware because you will NEVER do your dishes; don’t wait to do your laundry until the weekend because every single machine will be taken; freshman 15 is actually about freshman 30.
But after a few days I realized I didn’t have that much advantage over the other people when college hit me with its biggest weapon; freedom. It is an advantage to have such freedom around but it can also be my worst enemy. Yes, it turns out that freedom is the sweet trap that’s gonna bite your end in the end. You may not realize it at first, but you soon find out that all the things that looked good at first turn out to pull you into a steaming pile of dung.
Co-ed dorm sounded so exciting after living in a single-sex dorm for three years. Well, it turns out it’s not such a fun thing. In high school people called me “rock star.” I was never such a cool guy before I went to high school but a few gigs at the school and around home gave me a taste of what it’s like to be a rock star for a few years. However, now that I’m here I realized that it wasn’t just the gigs that made me a star but it was also the closed dorm that hid the geeky side of me from the rest of the campus, such as me chugging down packs of Slim Jims or my proud collection of movies including the Marvel-hero movies. But now that I’m in a co-ed dorm, it’s not gonna be so easy to “fake my way to the top.”
Last night, after only having a salad for lunch I had a craving for a burger from Ross Commons. Well, being able to walk to Ross Commons at 11 in the evening is one of the nice things of college life here but it has its own down sides. When I was walking back to my dorm with my giant burger in one hand and huge fries in the other, I saw this hot girl right outside the dorm all dressed up nicely. I felt like an idiot and ran back in to my room. And of course, as that wasn’t enough, the one girl I like on this floor had to walk by and see me eating a giant burger alone in my room watching Scrubs. WOW. Just awesome. God, why do you hate me? I learned that it’s the small things that make you feel stupid enough to make you want to die.
These few events made me realize how different college life is going to be for me and not all it going to be as crazy and glamorous as Animal House or Step Up 2. However I do hope and believe college isn’t going to be as bad as I described it because I know I’m not alone in this crazy part of life. Every single student in this campus is dealing with problems big or small and I hope the people who are struggling to keep up with the monster can feel better after reading this. You’re not alone in the battle. We’re right beside you.
Being the Honorary Latina
After venturing out with my newly found friends living in the race street suite style dorms on Thursday, my room mate suggested that I go with her to a "Latino party" as they are called with her on Friday. A Latino party is a party in which a group of Spanish speaking students (all usually from central or south America) from all around the area and surrounding schools meet up so that they can dance, drink, and socialize with people who have grown up with similar situations.
My roommate and I began our night around 11:30, which is accustom seeing as in Latin America culture, most don't even eat dinner until at least 9:30. We finally reached our destination around Midnight, after a walk to an off campus University of Pennsylvania house (in heels mind you).
First off, I noticed that everyone greeted each other with a kiss on the cheek and an excited "Hola! Como estas?" meaning, "Hello! How are you?" After getting over the initial shock of getting kissed on the cheek by about eight different people, I realized that the main socializing area was around the Hookah. A hookah is a device made for smoking tobacco and it is considered a very social event in almost all cultures. So mustering up enough courage, I joined my roommate in the hap-hazaard circle around the hookah and started talking to different people around me.
I had never realized how diverse the student population in Philadelphia was! I met people from Ecuador, Bolivia, Hoduras, Costa Rica and two others non latinos, one from Ukraine, the other from SIberia Russia. I was astounded by the sheer amount of culture that was packed into one slightly cramped apartment.
After staying at this apartment until about three in the morning, I had gotten my fill of drinking and socializing, it was now time to go to an after party to get the last important aspect of a Latino party, dancing.
Our group arrived at the after party which was a Upenn frat house basement party, I was then schooled in how to dance like a Latina. Seeing as I have been living in America my entire life, my definition of dancing that goes on at parties is, as my boyfriend has defined it in the past, "Groping your partner to a beat, therefore 'qualifing' it as a dance." But much to my surprise, none of my newly found friends had any interest in dancing like this. Instead, they taught me a very simple salsa which honestly, made me like dancing again. Instead of it being about "How vulger can I be on this dance floor?" it was about "How much fun can I have getting spun in and out and keeping to the rythm of my partner who genuinely just wants to dance?"
After about an hour or so of dancing and realizing just how exhausted we all were, we decided to go back to the dorms. As we made the treck back to the dorms, shoes no in hand, loud spanish streaming around me, I realized that I could get very, very used to this. I can't wait to see what happens next weekend.
A lot of the move in and ice-breaker events Drexel had planned during the first few days of “Welcome back week” did not really appeal to me. I really couldn’t see myself going to things like a casino night and a carnival on Friday nights. So during those first few days and nights I found my entertainment without Drexel’s direct help.
Then came Sunday, the best day of the week, the day you can be lazy and do nothing but watch football. I was ready to sit in my room with the TV on alternating between CBS and FOX all day. But then I received a text from my friend from orientation asking me if I’m going to
The Eagles and Steelers played that Sunday and won 16-5. With every big play on either side you could feel the energy in Ross. I myself was not to worried about the result of the game because I’m from
Chik-Fil-A
Before Move-In Day, I spent countless hours devising ways to avoid uncomfortable encounters with my new classmates. The night before the big day, I finally found my solution, a Chik-Fil-A nugget tray. I realized if anything brings people together, it is food. So I called my dad at 4 o’clock in the morning and ask him if he could order a large Chik-Fil-A tray for the next day.
After an exhausting Move-In Day, the moment of truth arrived; my dad called to tell me he had the chicken in his possession. I nervously text messaged a few people I met at orientation and asked them to come to my room to hang out. Within ten minutes, my room was crammed with then-strangers. I cannot really explain what it was, either the aroma of chicken nuggets or just a handful of Drexel freshman in a similar situation that made my transition into college easier than I could have ever imagined.
Hardcore Show
Panini: A Good Way to Make Friends
After a quick trip on the green line, we set up shop in the kitchen. Random appliances, utensils, and plastic plates filtered their way into our common kitchen at the end of the hall. And there I stood, at the center of it all, warming up my grill, as an industrial kitchen was coming to life around me. Then, when we had decided that every kitchen tool known to man was now at our disposal, the grilling began. We instantly starting pumping out three delicious flavors of panini sandwiches.
The first was chipotle cheddar chicken, a wonderful combination of chipotle lime chicken, cheddar cheese, sauteed mushrooms, and maple roasted barbeque sauce. (Am I making you hungry?) As the chef, I was honored with the first bite of the first sandwich, and it was fantastic. Then, we switched gears to our next sandwich, Teryaki ginger garlic, a vegetarian option, filled with peppers, onions, and mushrooms and then topped with the title sauce. Finally, there was the creme de la creme of the panini world: Carribean Jerk Steak panini. Just the aroma of this sandwich started attracting guests from all over the building. Within minutes, our kitchen had crowded itself with nearly 30 people, all of them hounding us for paninis.
In 45 minutes, we made almost 50 sandwiches and many more friends. The entire operation was a great success in meeting new people, not to mention a delicious endeavor. As a result, Saturday afternoon is now cooking time every week for the floor. Just yesterday we made top notch quesadillas, and we have many other meals in store.
P.S. Warning: This is not part of the primary entry.
To advertise, you're all welcome to come by on Saturday afternoons. $5 all you can eat. Email Goggles rm553@drexel.edu come out, eat well, make friends. (I promise I won't spam this again).
Leaving home for a new home...
There I was traveling thousands of miles to fulfill my dream and to make my parents proud. After 19 hours on an airplane, I landed in a new world. Where rules, concepts, and ideas were a total revolution to my own. My uncle and grandmother, whom i will be staying with for the duration of my studies, was supposed to be waiting for me at the airport at 19:30 p.m. After, I was done from immigration, that went very smoothly contrary to me expectation. I realized the deadly mistake about telling my uncle the time of my arrival to the U.S., they were expecting me the next day at 19:30 and they had there preparations. I made some phone calls, and had to wait approximately for 2 hours to get picked up.
After the hugs and greetings with my beloved uncle, that I haven't seen for years. My uncle started telling me about college life, their house, and commuting method to the University. Just so you know, I am sharing the basement with my grandmother, God bless her she's the one that is taking care of me, 'she's a piece of my mother and I'm a piece of her daughter' as she described. I have a beautiful room, nature, and home cooked food at my basement it was more than enough.
The first day to university, I was equipped with a car and a GPS and tips on road regulations and highways (never seen anything like it). I got to the University "safely", and then headed to the ISSS office, very nice people greeted me. Then, I was enlisted in a University tour, where i found my high school friend also attending Drexel. Later on when University started, and got to know new people and get to know the place. I started to fit in to my new environment and what i call now home. Drexel and Coopersburg is where you can find me folks, a home away from home, literally!
South Street Stroll
After moving to Philadelphia over a week ago, I immediately came to realize that I was going to have to overcome my absurd fear of being social. College life revolves around the interaction and communication of diverse students from nearly all over the world who are also lost in the atmosphere. This atmosphere of confusion and apprehension can be subdued by providing a way for students to get to know each other. In order to catalyze the interaction of students, Drexel provides several social events in which students can participate- one of them being the South Street stroll.
It was a Saturday night, two days before classes started, and I decided to be adventurous for once. I walked out my dorm room, and I decided that I was going to invite a few friends to join me on my journey. After recruiting four other friends, we made our way to the trolleys that were taking students to South Street. We reached the line, which was nearly a quarter mile long, and we began to feel irresolute about our decision to go. One of my friends turned and said, “Whose idea was this again?” Everyone began to laugh hysterically while subtly accusing me of this disastrous idea. While we were waiting, I began a conversation with my friend Nicky and I got to know more about him and his life. Nearly an hour had passed and the line was still a few feet long. We waited impatiently for the next trolley to come pick students up, but it felt as if the trolleys were lost. My leg began to hurt after standing for such a long time, and just as I was about to sit down, two trolleys made their way back. I was overwhelmed with excitement because we were finally going to make it to our destination. The line began to move up and the two trolleys began to fill. One trolley was filled with students and already left. The second trolley was filling rather rapidly, and my hopes began to dwindle as I thought that we were not going to make it on the trolley. My fear was confirmed when we were stopped right before going on to the trolley. We were the first ones in line!! So we waited another twenty minutes until the next trolley arrived and took us on a bumpy and windy ride to South Street.
I began to walk along this brick road to a street full of bright lights and shiny cars. The street was full of people and assorted shops. The sidewalks were packed with people talking, screaming, and laughing on a seemingly aimless journey. My friends and I made our way down this seemingly endless stretch of shops and entered various ones that we felt intriguing. We entered various stores, some of which the names I can not disclose due to their sexual content. One of the best stores we went into was Jim’s Cheesesteaks which also had an enormous line. At first I was hesitant to even attempt to wait in line but my friends convinced me that this place had the absolute best cheesesteaks ever. We waited in line again for nearly thirty minutes, but it was worth the wait because the cheesesteaks were delicious. After grabbing something to eat, my friends and I continued down the street and chatted as we walked. I began to feel comfortable around my friends after sharing stories and telling jokes. My fear of social events always seems irrational after taking part in one. My fear arises irrationally before these social events and I hope that someday that will dissipate.
After walking for nearly ten minutes, we decided that it was time to head back home. We arrived at the trolley line to return back, and we were going to have to wait another twenty minutes! My friend again turned and said, “Whose idea was this again?” We all started laughing, but then I said, “At least it turned out to be fun. It was definitely worth the wait!”